Manifesting Healthy Relationships: The Secrets To Finding Love, Romance And Your Soulmate For Life (Manifesting Love Book 1) by Darrin Wiggins

Author:Darrin Wiggins
Language: eng
Format: mobi, epub
Published: 2014-08-07T07:00:00+00:00

Chapter 7: Who You Want

Once you know exactly who you are, it’s time to figure out who you want.

This is the second part of being able to manifest a healthy relationship with a soul mate.

Once again, it’s of paramount importance to be totally honest here. We are going to talk about some common pitfalls and hard truths here.

Not paying close attention to this part of the process can result in attracting the completely wrong person for you.

Manifesting the right relationship for you is dependent upon opening yourself up to all of the possibilities.

We are going to talk for a few minutes about the wrong kind of manifesting (because it's so common).

The point of this is not to dwell on negative possibilities. Remember that thinking too much about what you don't want can be disastrous with the Law of Attraction.

We do, however, need to go over some of the common mistakes that people make when they want to manifest healthy relationships.

When you understand why these ideas are mistakes, you can let go of them. You’ll be able to open your mind to better possibilities.

1. Who you want vs. Who is familiar

Do you keep attracting your ex over and over again?

Even abusive relationships can become bad habits.

At the beginning of this book, I talked about how unhealthy relationships can start to seem normal to people who have been in them long enough or often enough.

The same is true when you are looking for a soul mate.

The partners from those unhealthy relationships are familiar to you. It's frighteningly easy to mistake familiarity with compatibility.

This is especially true when you start to think you have a “type.” You might naturally be attracted to people who share similar traits. You might, however, just find those traits comfortable based on people you’ve been with in the past.

The problem is that a lot of people imagine “fixing” their exes. If you’ve ever thought that an ex was perfect except for ______ (whatever trait you wish they didn’t have), then you need to be especially careful.

That kind of thinking leads you to look for a “better” version of your ex. That's bad mojo!

You could easily end up in a never-ending cycle of choosing the same person again and again, cursing your bad luck, and wondering why you don’t deserve to be happy!

2. Supermodel Syndrome

When I ask what you’re looking for in a soul mate, you might instantly picture exactly what you want.

Sometimes when I ask what people want, they give me a detailed physical description of their ideal mate.

When people get too single-focused on the physical appearance of their ideal mate, I call it “Supermodel Syndrome.”

The idea is that if you start a relationship with someone who is physically beautiful, you’ll put up with whatever flaws they might have in other, more important areas.

The problem, of course, is that once you get used to the beautiful supermodel, you have to actually talk to that person.

Don’t get me wrong here. Attraction is important in relationships. But attraction isn’t anything special in that regard.

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